Showing posts with label New York City. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New York City. Show all posts

Sunday, December 4, 2011

London Calling?


Lately I’ve had these strong urges to move to San Francisco, back to New York City, or as in this morning’s case - London.
...uh what?!
I learned fairly quickly after moving to LA, that this isn’t where I’m meant to end up.  I’ve been okay staying here because I don’t want to spend the precious money moving all over the place in my attempt to find the place that “feels right” and I did come out here for a reason and I’m not completely sure I’ve fulfilled that just yet.  But I’ve found these urges to move somewhere else occurring more and stronger than they have in the past.
I was surprised when I woke up this morning and one of my first thoughts was “I want to move to London” while I was eating my breakfast.  I honestly had never really thought about living abroad.  Maybe this is the adventurous person in me that’s realizing I haven’t seen enough of the world or I haven’t done enough traveling.  (I’m sure my sister is nodding her head thinking I could have told you that.)  Or maybe it’s the part of me that’s itching to figure out what my next steps are and move on from my current pace.
What also surprised me was the crazy support I got for what felt like a random idea to me when I posted my sudden urge on Facebook this morning.  I wasn’t necessarily surprised by my sister’s outpour of support but everyone else’s “go for its” (especially the one from an ex-bf I haven’t heard from in over a year).
And while it was so amazing to realize how much support I have out there, it also really messed with my head and made me realize how much I really need to figure out what I want to be doing right now so that I can figure out how to do it.  There is clearly a major part of me that’s ready to move on from where and what I’m doing now.
New York City? Maybe.


San Francisco? Maybe.

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London?  Maybe.

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Somewhere else? Maybe.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Foodie for a Day


My initial thought is “it’s another crazy week” but then I stop and am reminded it’s just a crazy month.  I didn’t realize how crazy September was going to be!  At least despite the madness, I’m staying motivated and positive and pushing forward with everything I have. (And fitting in sleep where possible).
I have a trip to the grocery store in a few for ingredients to make a delicious slow cooker recipe I saw on another blog last week.  But first, can we talk about how much I LOVE restaurants that make vegetarian and vegan options readily available?  And how much I really LOVE when those options are delicious?
When I was in New York, I found such a place: Pita Joe.
My friend Ida and I were wandering around looking for a place to eat and happened to stumble upon Pita Joe.  It looked pretty good, there was food I could eat, and the price wasn’t bad so we decided to go for it.
We both got the Joe’s Falafel Pita with falafel, hummus, lettuce, veggie salad and tahini with a mint lemonade to drink.



Oh.My.Goodness.




My taste buds were loving it!  It’s a “grab-and-go” kind of place with a few tables to sit and a super adorable atmosphere.  Ida and I loved catching up over delicious food!  (And she had fun helping me improve my food blogging photography skills....at least I think she did.) ;)
We had fun wandering around Urban Outfitters as well! <3 

Hey Pita Joe, can you come to LA, please?!

Monday, May 9, 2011

It's a mental challenge too....

Officially 11 days in and I think the initial “glow” is wearing off and this challenge is becoming more mental for me.  I succeeded at my task to focus and let go during last night’s Restorative Flow but was definitely looking forward to getting back to a nice sweaty flow.  My morning started out rather rough and I feared for the direction my day was going to go and was pleasantly surprised when it turned itself around, making this morning more of a minor setback.  I found I was being calmer and getting less frustrated with people and events that generally really aggravate me.  Instead, I was being open to taking on additional responsibilities that I thought would help everyone, including making my life easier down the road.  I left work in a good mood, stopped at the bank and continued onto yoga.
...I think I forgot how difficult last week’s class was with Chani.  I looked back at my post-flow notes and I definitely noted the difficulty of the class, but boy it got me today.  It was physically challenging for sure but what I struggled with today was the mental challenge.  The process of letting go, focusing and breathing felt like a nearly impossible task.  My brain kept floating away and going to another thought (including craving frozen yogurt?!).  It was strange.  I left feeling like a got a decent workout but frustrated and without my usual yoga glow.
I decided to stop and feed into my frozen yogurt craving (I’ve been good so it was okay) and then came home.  After a frustrating drive home, making me realize just how much I dislike driving since I moved to LA, I paused to question if selling my car is an option.  Maybe? But not now.
And THANKFULLY I had good news awaiting me today: Tracey and Laura are coming to California at the beginning of June!! :-D 
It’s such an awesome coincidence that Tracey’s best friend from high school (ME) and Laura’s best friend from high school (Jenny) both live in the LA area and have requested their presence, AND they were able to make it happen!  I’m super excited to have a couple days off in the beginning of June and be able to spend time with the two of them, especially before they leave for Spain later this year. Thank you to Tracey and Laura for making my day - I needed that! 

Tracey and I when her and Laura visited me while I was living in NY

Tracey and Laura during their trip to NY :)

I can't wait to see you guys soon!! :)


Monday, February 7, 2011

Something You Can't Leave Home Without - Day 15

You mean aside from the obvious - wallet with drivers license and hopefully a form of payment (credit cards, cash, whatever you prefer to use)?  Easy...my iPhone!!
I know, I know.  My sister is probably cringing in front of her computer screen reading this right now.  Not because I can’t leave my house without a phone, because I can’t leave without my iPhone!  
What can I say?  It’s more than just a phone to me, it’s my job.  I bought a MacBook Air because I wanted the portability of having my computer on me a lot and where I could respond to emails to promoters, bookers, whoever on a normal keyboard.  But let’s remember having a computer on you all the time would just be crazy and isn’t ideal, even with a computer that’s only 11” and a couple pounds.  I’m not going to carry my Air with me to a show or to a bar with friends or while I’m out shopping, unless I happened to be somewhere else that I needed it and those were stops after (and you can bet I’m not leaving it in the car to “wait” for my return).  But sometimes there are quick emails you can respond to while waiting to meet a friend for coffee or while waiting in the stupidly long check-out line at the grocery store or while you wait for your friend to finish trying on the 10 pairs of jeans she brought with her into the dressing room.  It’s convenient and has helped my career SO much.
Maybe it’s time for a story....
A couple years ago when I was still living in New Jersey, a couple of friends came to visit me and we decided to spend the day being tourists in NYC and seeing the Statue of Liberty.  Later that evening one of the bands I was working with, Copesetic, had a show at a new venue we’d never worked with before.  It was a recommendation from a coworker at Starbucks who knew the booker, but unfortunately that doesn’t mean anything and things went anything but smooth.  It was up in the air whether we were going to make the show that night (we meaning me, Tracey and Laura).  As we were about to hop onto the ferry from NYC to NJ, I got a call from the band.  It was difficult to hear on the boat and I kept going in and out of signal and losing the call, but as soon as we hit land I called them back.  The venue had NO idea why they were there....their name was on the schedule but crossed out.  Another band’s name was written and crossed out.  As far as they knew, no one was playing tonight.  But since nothing appeared to be scheduled, the show would go on.
The drama didn’t end there.  Tracey, Laura and I were able to make it to the venue within minutes of the first band getting ready to play.  I had booked the whole night, pulling in another band from the area to open, set up  a fee for each band to be played and amount of time.  When I showed up, I was informed the venue was still unable to get in contact with their booker, they had no idea what the plan for the evening was.  Eventually the booker showed his face, pulled me aside while the first band was playing and we got into a brief battle of “I said, you said” (imagine “he said, she said” but between you and me).  Things left unresolved and with a “I need to discuss this nonsense with the band.”  I was fuming.  I gave the band a brief rundown as they were concerned by the smoke coming out of my ears, but they needed to play.  Meanwhile, I was trying to pull up the email on my phone, a Blackberry Pearl.  No luck.  Stupid %$%^&&*(^
The band finishes playing, they’re packing up, the crowd stayed and enjoyed the music and additional drinks, everyone the band brought ate food and drank beer, the bar clearly did much better than they would have on said night.  The booker hid from the bar the whole time the bands were playing.  But he had to show his face, he had to pay the band and by this point they were filled in on all the details.  AND...Jay, the drummer and Apple employee, pulled out his iPhone, helped me log into my email and we found the email that contained the “he said, she said” aka WHAT I SAID!  When we went to talk to him again, he tried to stiff the bands the money we agreed on, I took Jay’s iPhone and shoved it in his face and said “this is what we agreed to! You can’t deny that! And if this is not what you meant, too bad because I used CLEAR terms and you said ‘Agreed’!” 
...we got paid.
...and I was right. :)
And when my Blackberry let me down because it’s stupid deleting of messages, Jay’s iPhone saved the day.  It was that night that I knew I needed that phone.  It was that story that I told a few different times in my interviews for Apple.  It was that night that made me realize that phone was needed in my career.  I needed a device that wouldn’t let me down.  So I switched to AT&T, started paying my own phone bill and have never looked back.
And while I’m on the subject, no, I will not be switching back to Verizon now that they are releasing the iPhone to that carrier.  Who wants to be on a CDMA network and not have the ability to check their email and browse the web while also on a phone call?  Not me.  If I’m going to pay so much money for such a high tech phone that I have determined being such an integral part of my career, why wouldn’t I want to get the most of it?  But I want my phone to be able to do everything that it possibly can (not having the iPhone 4 already eats away at me some days).
Bethany, I’m sorry if you’re feeling sad for my need for this phone.  But don’t look at it so much as a need for technology (though that is a part), consider it something I need for my job, for the company that I’m starting up, and for the overall success of the bands that I manage.  Remember, that makes me cool? 

Tracey and I on the ferry to Ellis Island